Emotional
Clearing & Healing Childhood Trauma with Hypnotherapy
as developed by David Quigley
Reprinted from the Journal of The American Board of Hypnotherapy
Alchemy has traditionally been associated with the transmutation
of base metals into gold. But the ancient Alchemists made clear in
their writings that the substance of their transformation was the
human soul. Their goal was the transmutation of the base metals of
human emotions and instincts within the subconscious mind into the
gold of self-realization. The vehicles of this transformative process
were the archetypes, the Inner Guides.
Thus Alchemy can be defined as the spiritual discipline of working
with Inner Guides. These powerful and autonomous beings live
within the subconscious mind and can guide us effectively to
health, happiness,
relationships, prosperity, and most important, the fulfillment
of our spiritual purpose! These Guides can be accessed through
the hypnotic
state.
Alchemical Hypnotherapy is a therapeutic process designed to
assist the client in working with their Inner Guides to change
their lives.
Alchemical Hypnotherapy synthesizes techniques from many
modern schools of Transpersonal Hypnotherapy and Psychology.
It includes,
Gestalt,
Regression Therapy, Neuro-Linguistic Programming (NLP), Psychosynthesis
and Shamanism with the ancient science of Alchemy as translated
and channeled to the modern world by Dr. Carl Jung.
Specifically, Alchemical Hypnotherapy, as developed by David
Quigley, includes all the following processes:
The rescue of the inner child from the trauma, neglect, emotional
pain of the past.
Providing the inner child with new loving parents and the experiences
of a nurturing childhood. We create with you a loving inner world
in which someone is always there to hear and respond to your
needs.
Strategies for contacting, testing, and working with the Inner Guides
(archetypes) through trance, movement, and shamanic practices.
Contacting past-life memories within the collective unconscious to
access creative abilities, resolve trauma, change karma,
and alter contracts with significant others.
Integration of sub-personalities (different voices within ourselves)
to resolve conflicting desires and goals. This leads to
the unification of the will and the achievement of dreams.
One of the primary goals of psychotherapy has been the
healing of depression, anxiety, chronic anger, and other
emotional
disorders, as well as the alleviation of psychosomatic
diseases whose source
is in the client's suppressed emotions. As hypnotherapists,
we are
constantly encountering our clients' childhood pain and
trauma while attempting to assist them in behavioral changes.
David
Quigley has
developed some revolutionary new technologies for the rapid
healing of these childhood memories. He calls his process "Emotional
Clearing Therapy." This article will show how these new
strategies of healing childhood traumas, accelerates the solving
of these
emotional problems.
Psychological research has strongly indicated that our
patterns of emotional health or weakness are often determined
by childhood
factors.
Sigmond Freud was the first modern psychologist to suggest
that trauma in the early years of childhood may be of
supreme importance in determining
an individual's emotional adjustment in later life.
More recent research by behavioral psychologists has
indicated that the basic nurturing a child receives
in its first
six years of life
provides the critical foundation for happiness, maturity
and responsibility in later life. Serious traumas occurring
in
this time period can
permanently cripple that child's maturing process.
The healing of these emotional traumas, however, has
been an elusive goal for most psychotherapies. Freud
used such
techniques
as free
association and dream interpretation to reach an analysis
of the client's subconscious material after 2-5 years
of weekly
therapy.
The insight gained by the client into the childhood
sources of his current neurosis would, theoretically,
allow the
client to
let go
of childish or irrational behavior. The client's logic
might be as follows: "Well, I can see that these feelings or behaviors
might have been appropriate at age 3, but are obviously unnecessary
now!"
Since Freud's day, the science of insight therapy has
come a long way, but is still based on Freud's basic
principle
that insight leads
to recovery. However, a large percentage of clients
have discovered that insight alone is not sufficient
to relieve
the emotional
symptoms caused by childhood trauma.
More recently, therapy pioneers like Wilhelm Reich
and Arthur Janov have developed a new form of therapy
called "emotional release" to
deal with early trauma. By taking the client back to the scene of
these childhood experiences and reliving them in gory detail, it
is thought that a client could release the emotional charge from
the experience, often by kicking and screaming. This would relieve
muscular tension, anxiety, and neurotic behavior. Wilhelm Reich's
work involved forcing the emotional release through deep pressure
on the body's muscles in which the repressed emotional charge had
been stored. Janov created a powerful group experience through psychodrama
methods. These therapies are based on the concept that releasing
locked-in emotion through acting out buried feelings in the context
of being regressed to a childhood memory presented the long-sought
solution for childhood trauma. Therefore, I call these methods "emotional
release therapy."
Recently, some problems have become evident in this
form of therapy as well. Many of my colleagues and
students
in this
field have noticed
that people who have done many months of emotional
release become very adept at expressing feelings,
but aren't
necessarily feeling
better. They often become fixated on acting out negative
emotions. One client of mine who had worked with
Janov for six months
stated that asserting his feelings, crying, and being
emotionally upset
became a pattern for him and others in his group.
While getting in touch with his feelings felt good
at first, getting stuck acting out his emotional
pain all
the time
felt bad. His solution:
he repressed his emotions and moved back into his
intellect. Another friend found that Reichian therapy
allowed
her to open up all the
anger inside, but her frequent fits of rage didn't
make her very many friends or make her life easier.
Now a new style of therapy is emerging which utilizes
an entirely new approach to dealing with childhood
trauma. This therapy,
which I call "emotional clearing", focuses
on providing the client's Inner Child with an experience
of being loved and
nurtured
by caring
parents after being rescued from the trauma of childhood.
This mode of therapy is especially effective because
it provides the
opportunity
for the client to experience, in a childlike state,
the fulfillment of emotional needs and completion
of the emotional maturation
which was blocked by traumatic experiences. Furthermore,
while emotional
release therapy may fixate the client in the expression
of negative emotions, emotional clearing allows the
client to experience
profound states of bliss and joy which the therapist
can then anchor (through
post-hypnotic suggestion) to the client's daily stressful
situations, replacing tension and fear with bliss
and joy even in difficult
crisis.
For example, one client who had a phobia of crowded
supermarkets ("agoraphobia") entered a childhood trauma which connected
to this phobic response. During the course of the session, we rescued
her child from this traumatic scene by having the client visualize
her adult self and other persons that she trusted enter into the
hypnotically-induced scene. After rescuing this "inner child",
I suggested that she become the rescued child. She felt this experience
as waves of bliss and relief in her body. I then used post-hypnotic
suggestion to anchor this bliss, stating, "Every
time you enter a supermarket, you remember this wonderful
feeling of being
rescued."
This linking process is simply a teaching the
subconscious mind to change its response pattern
from (supermarket
= childhood trauma
= panic) to the new pattern (supermarket =
childhood rescue = bliss).
After one session in this case, a one-year
follow-up revealed a complete remission of
symptoms.
Thus we see that emotional clearing doesn't
merely give us insight into emotional responses,
or
only allow the
expression
of repressed
feelings, but actually replaces negative emotions
of fear, pain, loneliness, etc. with positive
emotions of love,
joy and acceptance.
There are at least three distinct schools in
the field of emotional clearing work taught
in hypnotherapy
schools
in
California.
The first of these, developed by Milton Erickson,
involves the use of hypnotic suggestion in
which the hypnotist
feeds "new" childhood
experiences or ideas directly into the client's subconscious
mind, while the client is in a regressed state. The
therapist takes complete
control of redesigning the client's childhood.Erickson
even used deliberate amnesia to prevent the client's
conscious mind from
interfering with or negating the process, although
this step has not been found
necessary by modern practitioners of his technique.
A second more interactive strategy ("interactive" means
that the client and therapist work together in the
process of healing) involves the client setting up
a new ending for the
injured child's
experience. This modality, described by Frieda Morris
in Hypnosis for Friends and Lovers, involves the
therapist helping the client
relive a traumatic event first. Then therapist and
client together decide on a new experience which
is a positive one to replace
the original memory. For example:
Therapist: "Well, what can we do differently
now with this experience with your mother?"
Client: "I'd like her to be nice to me. She
could say, 'I love you. I'm sorry I lost my temper.
It's not your fault'."
Then client and therapist together re-create
the memory as a series of positive words
and images
while the
client is
in a regressed state.
This allows the client to feel love, bliss
and nurturance.
These two methods work well for many clients,
but often fail to address the client's
underlying feelings
of
frustration, helplessness, anger,
guilt, or abandonment. If the client, for
example, feels angry about mother's behavior,
neither
Erickson's nor
Morris' technique
provides
a complete solution. Also, many of my clients
experienced such a poor relationship with
a parent that it
is impossible for
them to
imagine their mother being a loving, understanding
parent.
As a third method, Alchemical Hypnotherapy
combines the best features of emotional
release and emotional
clearing
therapy.
It creates
a dramatic encounter between the client's
adult personality, the hurt,
traumatized child and important people
in the client's past. This process, called
the "rescue mission",
allows the expression of feelings which stem from
the incident, as well
as empowering
the client to heal himself. Here's an example:
The client is feeling helpless and angry
in the midst of a memory of being beaten
up by
father
in a traumatic
regression.
Now, I interject:
Therapist: "Let's imagine your adult self is entering
the room right now. What would you like to say to your
father, Mr.
Adult?"
Client: "I'd like to shake some sense into my
father! (grabs an offered pillow) Now you listen
to me, you jerk!"
Therapist: "Good! What is his response?"
Now the client has the opportunity to
release all of his repressed feelings
toward his
father (including
grief, abandonment, admiration,
etc.) and clear the way for a new level
of understanding with him. Often this
dialogue moves the client
towards forgiveness as he begins
to hear about his father's stressful
life and underlying love
for his son. Most important, however, is that the client is empowered to rescue
his "inner child" from the past. This nurturing relationship
between the adult and his inner child can continue between therapy
sessions. This considerably reduces the time needed for therapy
by giving the client an opportunity to heal and revise his own
childhood
during a few minutes of every day. In Alchemical Hypnotherapy, this self-nurturing process can be
expanded to include "inner parents". A new mother and
father are discovered in the child's own subconscious mind who
fill the child's
needs while providing both love and wisdom to the client's adult
self. This allows the client who has a seriously disturbed childhood
(and therefore no knowledge of what parental love feels like) to
recreate a happy childhood from scratch with a minimum of time
spent in therapy learning to contract the sources of love and healing
in
his own subconscious mind. Any way you look at it, emotional clearing is therapy that creates
the solid foundation of love, support, and positive nurturing
necessary for emotional security and happiness. In the complex
world of modern
therapy, emotional clearing is the wave of the future!
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